A breakup can be one of the most awful things to have to experience, especially if you have been with the same person for a very long time. The more experiences over time you’ve shared with your ex boyfriend, the harder it is to get over and the worse you are likely to feel. If you’re reading this, you more than likely know exactly what I’m talking about and you want to learn how to get him back, or if it’s even possible.
You can win back his love and affection by doing the right things and taking the right action steps. But first, you must give this breakup some time. It is so important that you take a step back immediately after a breakup, so you can have a clearer mind and so you can think from a non-emotional vantage point.
Can you get him back after you’ve given it some time? You bet! Here’s the best way to get your ex boyfriend back.
I’ve already mentioned the importance of giving your relationship a rest immediately after a breakup so you can have a clearer mindset, one that is not obstructed by your feelings. You see, it is a normal human reaction to seek immediate comfort to rid itself of hurt and pain. And while you are hurting bad emotionally after a breakup, you may (and most likely will) do something to screw this relationship up even more so. Maybe to a point of no return.
So when you give yourself time to step back and make no contact with your ex for a while, your emotions will calm some and after a while you will be able to think more clearly and not react in the wrong way. At this point you can start making efforts to win back that man, if that’s what you decide to do at that point.
You may not even realize it, but this time off, and this no contact rule after your breakup IS actually the first step and best method to get your ex boyfriend back. Men absolutely cannot stand the feeling of not being in power. Not being in control. He actually expects you to text him, to call him, to express your feelings of hurt and emotional pain, And when you don’t, he’ll assume that he didn’t actually mean that much to you and that maybe he wasn’t in control as much as he thought.
At this point, you’ve got the clear psychological advantage and you now have control over what happens from here on out. Even if he calls you, you must avoid communicating with him for a while. This will drive him crazy and he will do whatever he has to in attempt to regain that control.
This is a subliminal game all men have in their mind and it cannot be helped. They want to be wanted. They want to be in control. And when they don’t, they will go out of their way to regain that control.
Read more about the next steps to winning back your ex boyfriend (click here), and be sure to watch both videos at the end of this guide. Remember, it is possible to get back your boyfriend if that’s what you want. You only have to learn the process and then take the proper steps, in order, to really make this work. Best of luck! Comment below with any questions.