I get a lot of questions asked on my blog about getting their ex boyfriends back fast. As in, what steps can I take today to get him back by tomorrow? And the sad truth of the matter is that if you aren’t patient and you don’t take the time to let things settle before you can think from a rational and logical perspective, the end result will be just the same. Meaning you will find yourself right back where you were the day before; heart broken, hurt, and still without the person you love.
So I want to address the issue today, but still give you some steps you can take to win back your man as fast as humanly possible, and keeping him back for good. Which is what you want, right? So here are a few steps on how to make your ex love you again fast…or as fast as possible anyway.
I know you are thinking, “Great, I don’t have time. I want him now!” Especially in an article that is supposed to teach you how to get him back fast. But honestly, there is no other way of getting around this without stepping back for a bit. How long? At least two weeks.
Two weeks is not that long in the scheme of things. And if you really want to ensure it works out between the both of you so you don’t end up right back here again, do yourself a huge favor and give it some time. At least two weeks.
And you should not talk to him or make any contact in this time. Even if he calls or texts you, avoid responding. If this does happen, you will have the upper hand right away. This is going to be hard, but give it time. Trust me.
During this time of waiting, it will give you an opportunity to ask and answer why everything happened the way it did. As mentioned above, as you give yourself some time you will begin to think rationally about everything and that way you will be able to figure out the problems that caused the breakup. And then if you still want him back, you will be able to figure out how to address those problems and come up with clear paths of actions, and solutions to get those problems solved.
Don’t hide the truth of the matter from your delicate pride. Sometimes the truth hurts, but it needs to always be addressed if you want to win back your man. When you figure out exactly what you did wrong, then you will realize what steps you need to take to change to ensure your relationship has the best chance to succeed in the long run
Look, I know you want to get your ex back as fast as possible, but it is important to think long term rather than short term. You must hold back your feelings of needing him right now to comfort your heart break and find immediate relief. The pain will subside with a little time, and you need to give yourself some time. In the macro scheme of things, you will be much better off and your future self will thank you.
If you want more information about this whole process, be sure to check out my informative guide here. And be sure to watch the video for even more help.