The pain of losing your boyfriend is real and it is hurtful. Sometimes this pain can be overwhelming, I know. Despite your recent breakup, just know that you can take some action steps right now to win back your man, and get him back for good using the strong power of male psychology against him. Here are a few tips to help you get your ex boyfriend back using psychological tips.
Here’s the thing, most men will automatically assume that they are stronger mentally, physically and emotionally than their female counterpart…you. So you will need to use this misconception against them, because we all know that women are just as strong, if not stronger, than men when it comes to the power of thought and mind control.
Depending on your own specific circumstances of what caused the breakup, whether it was you or him, and how it all went down, most men will assume that the girl will be crushed beyond belief and won’t think twice to pick up the phone and immediately start texting or calling. If you want to win your man back, do not give in to doing this. Instead let the whole thing subside for a while and make no connection whatsoever for a good amount of time.
How long? Weeks at the very minimum. If you can go a few months, that is best. This will drive the man absolutely crazy and it is the first step you need to take to start to win him back by using the male’s psychology to do just that. Giving it time will put you in the driver’s seat, so to speak.
Men, for the most part, don’t like to be ignored. The fact that you aren’t connecting with him at all will make him wonder what in the heck is going on. He’ll automatically assume you are getting over the breakup just fine, and this will play tricks in his mind. He won’t be able to stand the idea that he’s not needed in your life and that you can just blow him off like that.
I know that this will not be easy and no matter what he thinks, your mind will most likely be inundated with nothing but thoughts of him and how things used to be. After all, you wouldn’t be here reading this article if things were ok, right? But take this time away from him to reconnect with old friends and family. Do whatever you can to distract your thoughts for as long as you can. It will get easier with time.
After you give it some time, and as mentioned before, you will now have the upper hand. He may have even reached out to you during this time off, but you still need to ignore him and hold off until you give it a few months. After that, move in, but move in slowly.
When you do make a move after this no contact phase. Be subtle about wanting him back, otherwise you will lose that upper hand once again. The most important thing to remember about male psychology is that they typically want what they cannot have, and the more you play hard to get, the better chance you will have to get him back and keep him around for as long as you want.
Thanks for reading this article on using male psychology to get him back! I sincerely hope it will help you accomplish what you intend to accomplish. If you haven’t already, be sure to read through my entire “how to get your ex boyfriend back” guide on the homepage and then watch that video afterwards. They tie in well together and there is a whole community of other women that are either going through what you are going through or have been through it already that you can speak with and get tips from.