I’ve talked about the psychology of males a lot and how you can turn the tide to your advantage by using their own psychology against them. And really there is no better way to make your ex boyfriend want you more than tricking him into thinking that need to win you back, rather than the other way around. It’s like a game to him, and all men love games. More importantly they will do what they can to WIN these games.
If you haven’t read any of the other articles on my blog, please do so when you are done reading this. But I have gone over and over the importance of the “no contact” rule in just about every article on here. And once again, I cannot stress enough the importance of giving your relationship a break after a breakup. Make no contact and have no communication for at least a few weeks to a few months.
When you give it time and distance, this will allow you time to think with a clearer mind. We all know how girls are after a breakup. We are a wreck emotionally! After a breakup, I can barely make myself a well cooked meal let alone devise a plan to win back the person I know I want to be with.
And so it should go without much explaining that the more time you give it, the clearer your thought process will be and the better chance you will have to actually win him back.
This time away also gives you a psychological advantage because it will drive your ex man crazy thinking about why you aren’t calling or texting him. Now you automatically have the advantage in the relationship and the keys to the car are now in your hand, so to speak.
This time away will not only help you clear your mind, but this clear mind should lead to a clear train of thought which will help you realize all of the reasons why your relationship didn’t work out in the first place.
Really think about all of the things that you did wrong that you can improve upon. You can’t control him, so don’t even try. If the reason your relationship didn’t work out is strictly due to him and his actions, you may really want to think long and hard about whether or not you should jump back into this relationship.
If, on the other hand, you know you were the cause, or maybe you both were the cause and you know from your heart of hearts that you and him will work out if given another chance, then by all means make yourself better.
This will take time, but when you do get the chance to finally approach him and he physically sees with his own two eyes that you are getting better, (whether that’s your physical appearance, career, new habits, etc…) he will naturally be curious himself and he may want to try things again. No matter what, improving yourself can’t hurt, and hey, improving yourself also does wonders for self-confidence so there is absolutely no downside to this at all.
I hope this brief article about making your ex want you helps you in some way. Please check out my comprehensive guide and videos on the homepage, and as always leave any comments below. Let me know how things are going for you!