What To Do If You Want Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Alright so you miss your boyfriend, bad. You want nothing more than to ease that emotional pain and get him back in your life. Back to the way things used to be when they were good. But what are you supposed to do if you want your ex boyfriend back? Is it even possible to get him back? What if he doesn’t want you back?

These are real questions that are probably flooding your head right now. And without knowing you personally, I can say that, yes, it is possible to get him back and to get things back to the way they used to be. However, there are some measures you’ll want to take to ensure you not only get him back, but keep him around without having to go through the same heartbreak that you are going through right now.

Your First Move: Nothing

I realize this is probably not what you want to see, but if you’ve read any of my articles on my blog or social profiles, this will make sense to you. But don’t adjust your eyes because you did read that right. You need to do nothing as your first move.

By doing nothing, I of course mean that you need to initiate the no contact rule first. This means absolutely no contact for at least a month. This will be very tough at first, but it is absolutely essential to make sure you’re not right back to where you are now after getting your ex boyfriend back.

When you take this time off, your ex will immediately start questioning why you aren’t calling him or why you aren’t working your ass off to win him back. Eventually it will get to a point where he’ll probably try calling you to see what is going on. And I will say that if he does contact you, you should still refrain from reply. After a good 30 days, then the ball will truly be in your court and you will then have the greatest chance to win him back.

Work On Yourself During This No Contact Phase

Being away from your boyfriend and fresh off of a long term relationship now really frees up some time so you can focus solely on yourself. Find comfort in this. I realize it will be different being away from someone you’ve been around so often and for so long. But with time it will get easier and doing things you love to do and improving yourself in different areas of your life will only help you forget about things for a bit.

All this focusing and improving yourself will also show outwardly as well. This means that when you start feeling better mentally and physically, it will show, and you will become much more attractive outwardly. This will help you even more so when and if you do decide to let your ex back into your life. It’s up to you and you will start to realize you can be happy no matter what and you will have plenty of options to choose from.


I hope this brief article helps you realize a few things about what it takes to get your ex boyfriend back. More importantly, I hope you now realize that your dreadful situation and heartbreak you are feeling right now won’t last forever. It may seem like the end of the world at first, but trust me when I say it will get better with time.

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