Can the convenience of texting to communicate to your ex boyfriend outweigh the pitfalls that might come from doing so? That is a question that can only be answered depending on your specific situation, your personality (and his), and of course the context and frequency of your texts. It can be done though. Here are a few words about what you can text to your ex to get him back.
Before I get into how you should approach these texts and what to say, it is very important to point out that you do not want to overdo it and send him too many texts. How many is too many? I’m not sure, depending on how your relationship broke off in the first place, two texts can be too many. The key point I’m trying to make here is that you don’t want to smother him with a barrage of texts that may make him think you are a psycho stage one level clinger. Just don’t do it.
So now that you know you don’t want to send him too many texts too fast, the first and only thing you want to do is reach for some kind of response. Especially if you’ve had no contact with him for a good while (this is key), you simply need to get a response. So how do you do that?
Don’t say you miss him and want him back now! Hold that urge no matter how bad you want him. Send him something simple but intriguing like, “I just drove by XYZ Art Gallery and it reminded me of you. How have you been?”
You want to keep it simple but not too simple where he might not respond at all. That would suck! So instead you send him something that will jog his memory of you. A good memory obviously. And this should be something that is held only between the two of you, whatever that might be.
Once you get a response and you are now in open dialogue, that is a great first step. The follow up is just as important. Remember, slow your roll here and don’t get overheated that he responded and pretend that everything is already back to the way it was. Nope. Instead, take the time to initiate a real conversation and asking questions about him and his life. Keep it slow and let him know it was good connecting with him again.
Use your future conversations to rebuild any trust you have lost from the breakup. Establishing that trust will take time, so again, to get yourself into a hurry and rush back into this. Texting is a great way to communicate your feelings and get your man back, in time.
I can’t tell you exactly what to say through text, but you have the advantage here because you know your man better than anyone. So use that to your advantage and build back that trust in attraction one simple text at a time.
If you liked this article and want more information about what to say to get your ex back, be sure to check out my guide and watch the video afterwards. Michael goes into great depth about texting and strategies you should use to ensure you get your man back and get him back for good.